help!

help!

hellooo! my boyfriend and i are moving into a new place next weekend, and we're going to pick out paint swatches this evening. we're really into deep reds and red-oranges... but we're having a sort of difficult time deciding what to do for the accent wall in our new bedroom. i don't have pictures of the place yet, but my bed is a black-brown malm from ikea, the place has really high ceilings and really old hardwood floors. we want to have the accent wall behind the bed, so it would be the black bed/headboard up against the wall, with a painting hanging over the bed. it's a double bedroom, so it's very open and spacious. i really want a warm tone, but my boyfriend is thinking more of a blue-gray... what would you say would work the best? warm or cool tone? any specific color ideas to go with a black bed and light-ish hardwood floors?
The east and north side of my bedroom

The east and north side of my bedroom

Lavender info.

Lavender info.

Pest Problem on Basil

Pest Problem on Basil

Plant id help!

Plant id help!

My Zinnias

My Zinnias

My Room

My Room